THE MIND BOGGLES!!

 

Change Your Life | December 11th 2025 No. 942

 

 

 

 

 

 

This Week's Reflection

 

The best things happen - they feel like they "just happen" - when we're in Flow. We do what's best, effortlessly, when we're in Flow. Sometimes, to quote many an Online Program Owner, it "feels like magic" - and, of course, it would certainly look outrageously like magic to the normally-minded person who is clueless as to how the world really works.

 

All that leads to the unavoidable and logical conclusion that, as we begin to look to the coming New Year, we should neither fall into the normal crazy trap of planning nor should we try to anticipate even what we'd like to do or achieve in 2026.

 

Instead, we should let things Flow.

 

This is "counter-intuitive" for most people who fear not being in control. But most people are normal-crazy, so we can discount this thought-created fear. And, bless them, normal crazy people actually think that they can control things!

 

The only thing that we can control is our own state of mind. And, when we do, then we're alert to the Flow that will always signpost the best way forward, moment-to-moment, one step at a time.

 

So... no point in looking back on the year that's drawing to an end, no point in looking forward to what we think might be around the corner. There's just one thing that we need to do and that's turn up to now.

 

 

 

This Week's Quick Tip

 

Beware of herd mentality! If you find yourself swept along on a wave of greed or panic - the classic symptoms of normal economic activity - pinch yourself!

 

And if your goals relate to the kind of things that your neighbours and friends would approve of - pinch yourself harder!

 

Remember, normal people are mad - you need to be different. So, stop yourself in your tracks and ask yourself... are my goals what are truly best for me and those I cherish?

 

 

 

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